{"id":536,"date":"2015-07-04T11:34:33","date_gmt":"2015-07-04T03:34:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yptk.cn\/index.php\/2015\/07\/04\/%e4%b8%87%e4%b8%87%e6%b2%a1%e6%83%b3%e5%88%b0%ef%bc%9a%e8%87%aa%e6%af%81%e4%ba%ba%e7%94%9f%e7%9a%84n%e7%a7%8d%e5%81%9a%e6%b3%95\/"},"modified":"2015-07-04T11:34:33","modified_gmt":"2015-07-04T03:34:33","slug":"%e4%b8%87%e4%b8%87%e6%b2%a1%e6%83%b3%e5%88%b0%ef%bc%9a%e8%87%aa%e6%af%81%e4%ba%ba%e7%94%9f%e7%9a%84n%e7%a7%8d%e5%81%9a%e6%b3%95","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/yptk.cn\/index.php\/2015\/07\/04\/%e4%b8%87%e4%b8%87%e6%b2%a1%e6%83%b3%e5%88%b0%ef%bc%9a%e8%87%aa%e6%af%81%e4%ba%ba%e7%94%9f%e7%9a%84n%e7%a7%8d%e5%81%9a%e6%b3%95\/","title":{"rendered":"\u4e07\u4e07\u6ca1\u60f3\u5230\uff1a\u81ea\u6bc1\u4eba\u751f\u7684n\u79cd\u505a\u6cd5"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n\t&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.yptk.cn\/content\/plugins\/kl_album\/upload\/201409\/932efc3f87697a11739e544fee49284a2014092520501611177.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"\u70b9\u51fb\u67e5\u770b\u539f\u56fe\" border=\"0\" alt=\"2014-09-25\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yptk.cn\/content\/plugins\/kl_album\/upload\/201409\/932efc3f87697a11739e544fee49284a2014092520501611177.jpg\" width=\"480\" height=\"317\" \/><\/a>\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tYou ruin your life by choosing the wrong person.<br \/>\n\u81ea\u6bc1\u4eba\u751f\u4e4b\u4e00\uff1a\u9009\u9519\u4e86\u7ec8\u8eab\u4f34\u4fa3<br \/>\nWhat is it with our need to fast-track relationships? Be alone. Eat alone, take yourself on dates, sleep alone. In the midst of this you will learn about yourself. You will grow, you will figure out what inspires you, you will curate your own dreams, your own beliefs, your own stunning clarity, and when you do meet the person who makes your cells dance, you will be sure of it, because you are sure of yourself.<br \/>\n\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u6211\u4eec\u89c9\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u9700\u8981\u72c2\u98d9\u7a81\u8fdb\u4f3c\u7684\u604b\u7231\u5173\u7cfb\uff1f\u5b66\u7740\u72ec\u5904\u3002\u72ec\u81ea\u8fdb\u9910\uff0c\u548c\u81ea\u5df1\u7ea6\u4f1a\uff0c\u72ec\u81ea\u5165\u7720\u3002\u5728\u8fd9\u4e2a\u8fc7\u7a0b\u4e2d\uff0c\u4f60\u4f1a\u660e\u767d\u81ea\u5df1\u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\u6837\u7684\u4eba\u3002\u4f60\u4f1a\u6709\u6240\u6210\u957f\uff0c\u4e86\u89e3\u5230\u5728\u4eba\u751f\u9053\u8def\u4e0a\u542f\u53d1\u7740\u4f60\u7684\u7a76\u7adf\u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\u3002\u4f60\u5c06\u638c\u63a7\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u68a6\u60f3\uff0c\u575a\u5b9a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4fe1\u4ef0\uff0c\u7406\u6e05\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u601d\u8def\u3002\u5982\u6b64\u4e00\u6765\uff0c\u5f53\u4f60\u9047\u5230\u90a3\u4e2a\u8ba9\u4f60\u5760\u5165\u7231\u6cb3\u7684\u4eba\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u4f60\u80fd\u591f\u786e\u4fe1\u4ed6\u5c31\u662f\u90a3\u4e2a\u4eba\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u4f60\u786e\u77e5\u4f60\u662f\u4ec0\u4e48\u4eba\u3002\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tYou ruin your life by letting your past govern it.<br \/>\n\u81ea\u6bc1\u4eba\u751f\u4e4b\u4e8c\uff1a\u7eb5\u5bb9\u4f60\u7684\u8fc7\u53bb\u64cd\u63a7\u81ea\u5df1<br \/>\nIt is common for certain things in life to happen to you. There will be heartbreak, confusion, days where you feel like you aren\u2019t special or purposeful. You cannot let these define you. If you don\u2019t allow yourself to move past what happened, what was felt, you will look at your future with that lens, and nothing will be able to breach that judgment.<br \/>\n\u4eba\u751f\u4e0d\u5982\u610f\u5341\u4e5d\uff0c\u8fd9\u662f\u5f88\u81ea\u7136\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u4f60\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u5fc3\u788e\uff0c\u4f1a\u8ff7\u832b\uff0c\u4f1a\u89c9\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u6beb\u65e0\u8fc7\u4eba\u4e4b\u5904\uff0c\u89c9\u5f97\u81ea\u5df1\u6d3b\u5f97\u6beb\u65e0\u76ee\u7684\u3002\u522b\u8ba9\u8fd9\u4e9b\u4e0d\u5982\u610f\u7684\u8fc7\u5f80\u9650\u5b9a\u81ea\u5df1\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4e0d\u80fd\u4ece\u8fc7\u53bb\u91cc\u8d70\u51fa\u6765\uff0c\u4ece\u8fc7\u53bb\u7684\u611f\u53d7\u91cc\u8d85\u8131\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u4f1a\u5e26\u7740\u8fc7\u53bb\u7684\u773c\u5149\u770b\u5f85\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u672a\u6765\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u6240\u6709\u4e8b\u60c5\u65e0\u4e00\u4f8b\u5916\u90fd\u4f1a\u53d7\u8fd9\u79cd\u504f\u89c1\u7684\u5f71\u54cd\u3002\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tYou ruin your life when you compare yourself to others.<br \/>\n\u81ea\u6bc1\u4eba\u751f\u4e4b\u4e09\uff1a\u6bd4\u9644\u4ed6\u4eba<br \/>\nWe get caught up in what our friends are liking, who our significant others are following, and at the end of the day this not only ruins our lives, but it also ruins us.<br \/>\n\u6211\u4eec\u5e38\u5e38\u4e3a\u4e86\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u504f\u597d\u684e\u688f\u81ea\u5df1\uff1a\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u4eec\u559c\u6b22\u4ec0\u4e48\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u604b\u4eba\u5728\u8ffd\u6c42\u4ec0\u4e48\uff0c\u5982\u6b64\u4e00\u6765\uff0c\u4e0d\u4ec5\u4f1a\u628a\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u5f04\u5f97\u4e00\u56e2\u7cdf\uff0c\u4e5f\u628a\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u5173\u7cfb\u5f04\u5f97\u4e00\u56e2\u7cdf\u3002\n<\/p>\n<p>\n\tYou ruin your life by tolerating it.<br \/>\n\u81ea\u6bc1\u4eba\u751f\u4e4b\u56db\uff1a\u4e00\u5473\u5fcd\u8010<br \/>\nAt the end of the day you should be excited to be alive. When you settle for anything less than what you innately desire, you destroy the possibility that lives inside of you. Life and work, and life and love, are not irrespective of each other. They are intrinsically linked. We have to strive to do extraordinary work, we have to strive to find extraordinary love. Only then will we tap into an extraordinarily blissful life.<br \/>\n\u5f53\u4e00\u5929\u5c06\u5c3d\u7684\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u4f60\u5e94\u8be5\u4e3a\u6d3b\u7740\u800c\u611f\u5230\u6b22\u6b23\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u4e0d\u53bb\u8ffd\u6c42\u5185\u5fc3\u6e34\u671b\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\uff0c\u800c\u662f\u5f97\u8fc7\u4e14\u8fc7\uff0c\u9000\u800c\u6c42\u5176\u6b21\uff0c\u4f60\u5c31\u4e27\u5931\u4e86\u8ba9\u81ea\u5df1\u5185\u5fc3\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u5b9e\u73b0\u7684\u673a\u4f1a\u3002\u751f\u6d3b\u4e0e\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u751f\u6d3b\u4e0e\u7231\u60c5\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u5e76\u4e0d\u662f\u4e24\u4e24\u4e0d\u76f8\u5e72\u7684\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u4e4b\u95f4\u90fd\u6709\u7740\u5185\u5728\u7684\u8054\u7cfb\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u5fc5\u987b\u52aa\u529b\u628a\u5de5\u4f5c\u5e72\u5f97\u68d2\u68d2\u7684\uff0c\u52aa\u529b\u628a\u60c5\u611f\u7ecf\u8425\u7684\u68d2\u68d2\u7684\u3002\u53ea\u6709\u8fd9\u6837\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u624d\u80fd\u83b7\u5f97\u7f8e\u597d\u7684\uff0c\u5e78\u798f\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u3002<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; You ruin your life by choosing the wrong person. \u81ea\u6bc1\u4eba\u751f\u4e4b\u4e00\uff1a\u9009\u9519\u4e86\u7ec8\u8eab\u4f34\u4fa3 What is it with our need to fast-track relationships? Be alone. Eat alone, take yourself on dates, sleep alone. 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